What degree of wholeness are you? Wholeness, according to Dictionary.com, has many meanings. The definition I have chosen is pertaining to all aspects of human nature, especially one’s physical, intellectual and spiritual development. When I began my current journey I was beyond broken, I was shattered. I was buried in denial and had settled into believing I was right and the world was wrong. To protect my fragile ego, I would fight any opinion that didn’t conform to the imaginary world I lived in.

As I begin to see and understand my character defects I realize how different we all are and how much we are also so much alike. I also realize we are each already whole lacking understanding. We are all made in God’s image and likeness, yet resemble different aspects of God. The Bible says we should not judge and yet we do. It is our judgment and not each other that is flawed. I continue to evaluate my thinking process and all the people who have been a part of its manufacture looking for the judgment. When I remove my judgment, I see all mankind as perfect, which I am a part, improving my esteem.

Parents, schools, sundry religions; in fact all aspects of my material environment have been a part of creating my misunderstanding of my perfection and wholeness. Jesus said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” We all must find our truth and it must set us free or it is not our truth. I have found my truth and it has set me free. I also help others find their truth, although it may be dramatically different from mine. We must find our truth to become whole. If you want to know the best source of this truth remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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