What degree of wholeness are you? Wholeness, according to Dictionary.com, has many meanings. The definition I have chosen is pertaining to all aspects of human nature, especially one’s physical, intellectual and spiritual development. When I began my current journey I was beyond broken, I was shattered. I was buried in denial and had settled into believing I was right and the world was wrong. To protect my fragile ego, I would fight any opinion that didn’t conform to the imaginary world I lived in.
As I begin to see and understand my character defects I realize how different we all are and how much we are also so much alike. I also realize we are each already whole lacking understanding. We are all made in God’s image and likeness, yet resemble different aspects of God. The Bible says we should not judge and yet we do. It is our judgment and not each other that is flawed. I continue to evaluate my thinking process and all the people who have been a part of its manufacture looking for the judgment. When I remove my judgment, I see all mankind as perfect, which I am a part, improving my esteem.
Parents, schools, sundry religions; in fact all aspects of my material environment have been a part of creating my misunderstanding of my perfection and wholeness. Jesus said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” We all must find our truth and it must set us free or it is not our truth. I have found my truth and it has set me free. I also help others find their truth, although it may be dramatically different from mine. We must find our truth to become whole. If you want to know the best source of this truth remember…
Your Life is PERFECT!
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D