The definition of history I want to talk about according to Definitions.com is a continuous, systematic narrative of past events as relating to particular people. I have history with people that establish one of several levels of friendships. Like with all relationships, the most important ingredient is compatibility. I have friends that I have vast history with yet we seldom have similar opinions. I also have friends that I have very little history with yet we are very connected.

I began to think about my friends after I left Montana from my four month stay from our house fire. I called Montana home from fourteen years old to forty eight. I had great friends and have tried to hold on to most of them. The problem arises when we left to move to Arizona the chains that bind friends rusted and lost their strength. Distance can make the heart grow fonder but it can also loose its interest.

Arizona has become my new home and I don’t feel I want to rebuild history in a new community again. I found good and bad in everyplace I have ever lived. Rebuilding a life required reestablishing history with people. I enjoy reaching back and visiting places I have history with but the longer I stay the less any of them feel like home. I take personal responsibility for my current situation as I feel the older I get the more important friendships are and the more I tend to invest so Arizona will be my permanent home. If you want to know where your history is invested remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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