I have found through over thirty years of studying the human condition that if a person is not producing something they show little or no esteem. As is the law that if we don’t love ourselves we cannot love others esteem is both self motivated and outwardly motivated. I am saddened to see people put them in such low regard as to have themselves so down their priority list that they never find time for themselves. Flight attendants tell you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others and I would like to ask you to always see to your own needs before that of others.

When one acquires esteem one commits to their heredity and becomes Godlike. Being Godlike one must master their creative nature and create something. That something may be material or mental or spiritual. One can move from their inert personality matrix and be either analytical, controlling, social or nurturing but one must produce something. 

It is my wish for our society that we offer free education to everyone at every level as long as they continue to produce something. Then if you don’t produce, you don’t eat. This would not only increase the productivity of this country it would save trillions of dollars of federal funding to support poverty. I don’t support our poverty mentality as it is counterproductive to a great and rewarding spiritual life. This is why I always remind you…

Your Life is PERFECT!

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. 


About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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