The definition of deserving, according to is qualified for or having a claim to reward, assistance, etc., because of one’s actions, qualities or situation; meriting; worthy. When I use the term deserving I do not use it in the same string of thought as entitlement. I deserve God’s love but I am not entitled. There are things that must be done to achieve what I deserve. I am worthy but not entitled. God’s love is available to me but I must approach God to know God.

Entitlement is when people sit around with their hands open waiting for something to be delivered to them. Deserving is doing what is required to achieve, knowing that the outcome is foreknown. I know that God offers grace freely yet I must stay in constant conscious contact with God in order to manifest it. I must love the way God loves; unconditionally.

I spent my life being told by religion I didn’t deserve God’s grace. I have since realized that it is God’s desire that all of mankind realize grace. When we realize grace we return it, and eventually when all of humanity has realized grace we could rebuild the Garden of Eden. It was Jesus’ desire that we all love one another in order to recapture God’s original wishes for humanity. I am made in God’s image and likeness and must manifest spiritual grace at this level to be blessed. The best way I know to remember I am deserving is to remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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