Can you live on life’s terms? How do you cope? Cope, according to is to face and deal with responsibilities, problems, or difficulties, especially successfully or in a calm or adequate manner. Most people do not have the ability to cope with anything out of the ordinary as they were never allowed to think for themselves. You acquire common sense one of two ways, you either draw from your bag of tricks, learned through experiences, or trial and error, or inspiration and intuitive thought. Most parents prevent their children from learning life’s lessons in a selfish desire to keep their children safe or to not look bad as parents.

We must all learn to cope as the universe is in God’s hands and we must learn to cope or trust. The better I accept God’s will for me without having to take control the better I seem to cope. To cope is to accept life on life’s terms; accepting God’s plan as the only plan. Coping is a short step toward accepting a better life. I have worked diligently in acquiring an understanding of God that allows me to easily accept changes of plan and to cope. I live my life in compliance with God’s laws and live in constant meditation and prayer. This allows me to have very little to cope with.

To cope is a show of struggle. I am aware that I have no power other than the life force of God working through me and I give the world the best I have at any given time and am sure God is proud of my efforts. I am only responsible for my efforts as God is responsible for the outcome of all my actions. If my actions are positive the outcome will be positive and if my actions are negative my outcome will be negative. But even if the outcome seems negative and I don’t let up on my prayer and meditation God uses it to help me reach my ultimate potential. If you want to know what you need to do to learn to cope remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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