As a metaphysical psychologist, before I can implant a new idea into a client’s mind, I must condition them. Conditioning, according to has dozens of definitions but the one I am going to cover is a circumstance indispensable to some result; prerequisite; that on which something else is contingent. Conditioning is a process of dissolving self-defeating beliefs in order to make room for enriching beliefs. If one is not properly conditioned the new concept or idea will be polluted with remnants of the old idea or not allowed to enter entirely. Benjamin Franklin noted, “A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still.

To help someone change their mind is a difficult undertaking. The art of persuasion is much more of a science than an art but is probably a combination of both. Salesmen get a bad rap as they are well versed in the science of persuasion, which is merely a form of conditioning. If people would evaluate their needs and wants and arm themselves with all the choices they might confront, they probably would not be manipulated by salesmen.  When we all begin to learn to condition ourselves by questioning our truth and learning other ways of seeing things we will gain a power and self-respect that we were intended.

I am much more confident by evaluating all the boogie men my clients bring with them for me to disarm. Most of us have been told the truth held by others only to find that it is not our truth. Until I began to investigate my vaults of truths I have been handed did I find how much I was marching through life unarmed. By evaluating my own life and what does and doesn’t work for me I become conditioned to accept new truths. Even new truths may only be transient, therefore I inventory my beliefs often and thoroughly. I doubt that my clients will ever receive nearly the results that I do. If you want to know where to start your conditioning remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mspy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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