Are you a human being or a human doing? Do you know enough about yourself to be comfortable with you? Can you just be? Being according to is the fact of existing, conscious; moral existence; substance of nature.  Many of us have been brought up with so much negative browbeating that we spend our days contemplating what we need to do instead of learning to be who we are. I have done nearly three hundred personal inventories and most of what I have examined has been thoughts, feelings and behaviors not kindred to who I am.

I know today what my personality is according to dozens of personality assessments. According to the Humanmetrics Jung Typology Test I am an ENTP; Extravert (59%) (over introversion); Intuitive (44%) (over sensing); Thinking (50%) (over Feeling); Perceiving (6%) (over judging). You can test yourself at Some personality assessments have pages of science that provides us with our nature. Being is not what we have been taught to be, it is what we were meant to be. Our DNA is who we are, it is our being.

Being is a rich form of living. It comes with self-confidence, self-acceptance and incredible freedom to be without the constant need for acceptance. When you know who you are you merely need to be that and try to be the best you can be. When you are basing who you need to be on who you were meant to be you can’t help but be successful. You are you! You are not who others think you should be. You can’t build a skyscraper on a residential foundation. You will never meet your potential if you never take the time to find your being. The best way to start being is through remembering…

Your Life is PERFECT!


Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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