Do you judge your life against averages? Do you judge yourself by the success and failures of others? Are you seeking to fulfill someone else’s dreams and ambitions?  Do you even have a clue to who your true self is? Average according to Dictionary.com is a quantity, rating, or the like that represents or approximates an arithmetic mean; a typical amount, rate, degree, etc.; norm. I remember thirty-seven years ago when I would have given anything to be average or normal and today it is the last thing I would ever want for me, my family, my friends or my clients. Actually I wouldn’t wish average or normal on anyone on the planet.

Average is an unreal vision as it is figured by adding everyone together and dividing it by the number of participants. When I am living “of the world,” or non-spiritual, it is all I have to compare to. When I initiate a spiritual life through humility, prayer and meditation, I find an inner calling that is personally chosen for only me. I am currently aware of my inner calling and live it to the max daily. I don’t try to understand it. I don’t try to develope it.  I don’t try to understand it. I just live it. I evaluate the external input of my environment and adjust accordingly.

Average is not a benchmark yet we have developed it as a way to evaluate our education, rewards, punishments, morality, etc. We are letting our society develop our morality, instead of our morality develop our society. We all know right and wrong as long as we are communicating with God. We know what we should and shouldn’t do before we ask anyone their opinions. We tend to associate the person we ask for an opinion with the opinion we are looking for. A spiritual life has no room for averages. We are all made individually and have a special calling. If you want to know what your calling is remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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