I have had a few clients who were so loyal to something that they alienated themselves from what they needed to grow. Alienation according to is the state or experience of being isolated from a group or an activity to which one should belong or in which on should be involved.  Alienation normally occurs from believing something we were taught even though it never really worked for the person who taught it to us. Our parents alienated us from who we are as they tried lovingly to guide us down a path they had been sold on.

I normally don’t surrender a belief until I have seen the folly in following its direction. I was brought up by a father who was 100% Swedish. He had already broken from most Swedish traditions. He was, although, saddled with many ideas that he never questioned through loyalty to certain factions of his belief system. Once I hit my bottom and was awarded a new life with new opportunities I have let go of all my loyalties. I can’t sail toward lands unknown, if I never untie myself from the dock.

Everything I have been taught has been necessary for segments of my life but I am not willing to alienate myself from my ultimate potential by staying unwittingly loyal to anything other than God. I tell my clients never wait at the airport for your ship to come in! I pray daily for intuition. As I was created in God’s image and likeness, I am blessed with both conscious and intuition. I must learn to follow my intuition if I am to learn to trust in it. I can afford to alienate myself from anything other than God, therefore I must be willing to start my day with a clean slate, remembering…

Your Life is PERFECT!



Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

About Randolph Ek

My name is Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. I started life as one of five children of an alcoholic father. The physical and mental abuse nearly destroyed my life. In fact my self-destructive behavior nearly landed me in prison. I eventually was guided to an alcohol/drug counselor and he directed me to a rehabilitation center. Since that time I have spent more than thirty years devoted to helping people find their ultimate potential. We can blame our negative, spiraling life on victimization but until we accept responsibility the power we need is beyond us. When we accept our part in our lives and surrender to a higher power, which I choose to call God, intervention is immediate. God allows us to realize our true power. We are all made in God’s Image and Likeness and have all the power of the universe at our disposal. We are not victims; we are volunteers and once we believe this truth our lives become limitless. God wants us all to have our heart’s desire and he will deliver whatever we continually think about good or bad. Unless I start my day off powerless and humble I cannot make the spiritual connection required to tap into God’s limitless power. God loves mankind and refuses to leave anyone behind. We can go willingly or we can be dragged to salvation. Pain is merely a symptom of spiritual separation mind, body and spirit. Realize, your individual limited resources, seek help, join others in their quest for spiritual understanding. Realize that all religions are right, yet they are also incomplete.

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