Monthly Archives: January 2018

Cope

Can you live on life’s terms? How do you cope? Cope, according to Dictionary.com is to face and deal with responsibilities, problems, or difficulties, especially successfully or in a calm or adequate manner. Most people do not have the ability to cope with anything out of the ordinary as they were never allowed to think for themselves. You acquire common sense one of two ways, you either draw from your bag of tricks, learned through experiences, or trial and error, or inspiration and intuitive thought. Most parents prevent their children from learning life’s lessons in a selfish desire to keep their children safe or to not look bad as parents.

We must all learn to cope as the universe is in God’s hands and we must learn to cope or trust. The better I accept God’s will for me without having to take control the better I seem to cope. To cope is to accept life on life’s terms; accepting God’s plan as the only plan. Coping is a short step toward accepting a better life. I have worked diligently in acquiring an understanding of God that allows me to easily accept changes of plan and to cope. I live my life in compliance with God’s laws and live in constant meditation and prayer. This allows me to have very little to cope with.

To cope is a show of struggle. I am aware that I have no power other than the life force of God working through me and I give the world the best I have at any given time and am sure God is proud of my efforts. I am only responsible for my efforts as God is responsible for the outcome of all my actions. If my actions are positive the outcome will be positive and if my actions are negative my outcome will be negative. But even if the outcome seems negative and I don’t let up on my prayer and meditation God uses it to help me reach my ultimate potential. If you want to know what you need to do to learn to cope remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!

PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

Psyche

Like most of the English language, there are several definitions for the term Psyche. I have to combine two definitions according to Dictionary.com. Psyche describes the mental or psychological structure of a person, especially as a motive force, including the soul or spirit. I believe that the psychological structure of a person exists in their mind, which is both a part of one’s DNA and a part of their integrated past lives. As a metaphysical psychologist I study a person’s family to understand a person’s Psyche. When I look for a person’s Psyche I need to look at a person’s family of origin from both roots. I need to know the Psyche of parents to have a true understanding of the child’s Psyche.

Most people never reach their purest Psyche. We are all blinded by the opinions of others. Most of us try so hard to be accepted by others we mold ourselves based on someone else’s Psyche. When we do not find our inner force, or Godliness, we fail to achieve our perfect spirit or Psyche. I am constantly asking myself if I am trying to satisfy myself or the people I love. It is socially acceptable to live for another, while losing oneself usually loses all associated with self. I love my family but I pray that they will love me for the man God and I are continually trying to find.

My Psyche is my highest self. It is a blueprint of my Godliness and it lies deep within me and is only found through selfless service and prayer and meditation. When I serve others I find my purpose as a child of God. God wants me to find him in my life and live that life loud and proud. When I am asked by those who see the passion and enthusiasm in my life I need only show them the course of action I have found that leads me to my Psyche and hold them accountable for finding their ultimate potential, which is their Psyche. If you want to know where your Psyche is remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!

PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

Painstaking

In the book Alcoholics Anonymous is a statement, “If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are halfway through.” This is typically not painstaking about any phase of any development and wonder why we are not amazed. Painstaking according to Dictionary.com means taking or characterized by taking pain or trouble; expending or showing diligent care and effort; careful. I finish all my writing with, “Your Life is PERFECT! PAY ATTENTION!!!” It is not merely paying attention but also seeing life from a completely different perspective.

Painstaking sounds painful but actually painstaking is a steadfast awareness and a quickness to change direction if necessary. I am painstaking, which saves me painful results. I have said that I fired God as my janitor and rehired God as my scout. To utilize a scout one must slow their life down and learn to trust and communicate with said scout. Through constant prayer and meditation, I communicate with God. I ask for God’s help and take time to slow my mind down and listen for the guidance I have asked for. The more I pray and meditate the more I hear God and not my Ego.

With God managing my life I slow down my insane need to control. I don’t need to worry if I make a mistake as God is in control of the universe, I’m not. Through years of inventories I see that God has used all my actions, both positive and negative for my best interest. Being a metaphysical psychologist I find myself in people’s minds, where I most people might get lost and because I have had seven careers and sixty jobs, I casually meander through insanity finding the slivers of thought that must be resolved. If you want to know how to become painstaking in order to resolve chaos in your life remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!

PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

Verge

Are you on the verge? Verge, according to Dictionary.com is the edge, rim or margin of something; the limit or point beyond which something begins or occurs; brink. There are many levels of success but only a small percentage are on the verge of a successful life. In music or other forms of art many have reached the verge of success. There are people who have never quite made their dream come true and others who, called, “one hit wonders,” were merely on the verge but never finished the job. I, as a writer know how hard it is to stay motivated to the fruition of a dream as there are many motivational necessities driving a true successful dreamscape.

For one to thrust themselves beyond the verge to being truly successful, they must first have a prominent dream. They must propel said dream with passion and well laid plans. They must stick to the plan, making mere slight adjustments, through thick and thin. I find myself explosive until I reach the verge and am misguided with mental chaff or distraction. I have many thoughts, both negative and positive that play on my success. It is the willingness and support of others that must propel us to our verge. Then we must regain new enthusiasm to push us to the top and beyond.

I had huge dreams and was certainly talented enough to achieve most of them but life got in the way. Things, other than my selfish dreams, got in the way, and my dreams changed. I have been successful in several areas and although my writing remains on the verge many other parts of my life have been very successful and rewarding. My life is full and my dream stays alive. I want to write a bestseller and hopefully I will live long enough to fulfill my dream. If it is vital that I achieve my writing dream and I don’t live long enough to finish it then I will return in another life to write again. If you think you have greatness inside you and are sitting on the verge, remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!

PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.