Monthly Archives: April 2013

Creation

Creation is not only what God does; it is what we are. We are made in the image and likeness of God. We are made to create. We only display true esteem when we are creating. We must create or we distance ourselves from our spiritual nature and fall into depression. In fact it is through experiencing this depression myself and helping other’s overcome it that I became a metaphysical psychologist. I don’t do what I do for me or you; I do it for us! If we are to survive we must stand together and create a better tomorrow.


It is vital to remain Godlike, therefore creative. Creation sustains success. We love success but each success must be followed with further, constant successes if we are to call ourselves successful. Success is not an event, it is a lifestyle. Change should not be avoided, it should be created. If we are not creating our own lives we will be utilized in realizing another’s creation. Creation is constant; it is inevitable! We are all part of an endless creation. Either we lead or we follow; non-participation is not an option.


Creation begins with new thought. We must pray in order to link ourselves to God. This link is created when we meditate and create the loop of information called communication or a balance of talking and listening. The product of spiritual communication is intuitive thought. Intuitive thought gives direction and clarity of truth. The truth in spiritual can be seen in material and the truth in material is seen in spiritual. The truth is always the truth at all levels of life. LAW IS LAW!

I don’t mind being a part of another’s creation but I consciously choose how I will participate. When I am aware and active in my life I am seldom disturbed. When I fail to stay conscious, I fall into automatic, losing my power and becoming afraid and agitated. God is NOW and when I am fully in the NOW I am fearless. Being in the NOW also allows me to coexist with others. The ability to coexist with others without losing our own creative nature is why I constantly remind you…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.  

Honor

Encarta Dictionary describes honor as strong moral character or strength, and adherence to ethical principles; great respect and admiration. Do you have honor? Do you show honor? Are you who you think you are? Do the people in your life honor you? These questions must all be yes if you are to say you have honor. 


I have honor even though many people do not necessarily like me because I like me. Liking myself does not essentially say that I don’t see my flaws and continually try to correct them. It is in this constant improvement that leads to honor. I honor myself by relentless improvement in being myself. It is through discipline and perseverance that we reach our ultimate potential. Self-honor is but a small part in being honorable. 

I have become honorable by following the advice of others who I deem honorable. This is why I try to honor others through being available and supporting the positive growth. When trying to break through people’s denial I often have to be aggressive and persistent but I try to balance it with encouragement and corroboration. Tough love must be balanced with healing love. Too tough and I harden; too soft and I soften. I often say that I used to rigid and wishy-washy and now I am firm and flexible. This has come from finding balance through awareness. 

I have only one question for God when I have finished this journey, “Lord have I made you proud?” If you want to have honor you must honor yourself with constant inventory and improvement. If you want to honor others teach them what you have learned that improved the quality of your life. We must travel this life together if we are to reach our destination. This is why I always ask you to remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
  

Respect

According to the Encarta Dictionary the word respect means somewhere between admiration, to simply being considerate or to think about someone besides yourself. Sometimes we get so consumed by our own life that we fail to respect the challenges of others. The truth is that Jesus’ commandment to “love our neighbor as ourself,” is a law of spirit. We must respect ourselves FIRST. As I often say, “I use to hate me, so I hated you.”


It would help us to love others as God loves us and bestow grace like God bestows. We are all children and direct descendants of God, therefore we are all related. As with my own siblings, I may not like them from time to time but I always love them and try to keep my judgment to myself. I have heard people who judge others call it righteous judgment. Righteous means right thought-ness and that means to see the world as God sees the world and that is PERFECT! 

God does not portray negative human emotions as God is not human and does not experience fear. All God emotions are based in love and that is why I try to live my life based on God principals or love related. As I take fear out of my life I gain respect for myself and when I respect myself beyond my defects I respect beyond yours. And it is also good to remember that God allows us to go down any road we want, knowing that all roads lead eventually back to God. So don’t be so sure that you know what is best for others as our own life is yet developed.

Respect is a trademark of forgiveness. We must learn to forgive others. Forgiveness is a counteraction of judgment and God does not judge, therefore we should not judge. We are human and do judge so be slow to judge and quick to forgive. God gives us room to make mistakes as all mistakes are lessons necessary for our development. We in turn must be tolerant of others as they progress in their experiences also. If one want respect one must first respect oneself and then offer the same to others. We actually teach people how to treat us. And to further this lesson always remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.   

Robin Hood?

Rob from the rich and give to the poor? For anyone who understands metaphysics knows how ludicrous this sounds as all longstanding success must be personally manifested. If we were to truly redistribute the wealth in the world without redistributing the intelect within a very short time the rich would be rich again and the poor would be poor again. On top of a waste of time it would also create an even larger case of entitlement that we are eventually going to pay a tremendous price for. 

Wealth distribution is much more than a political issue; it is both mental and spiritual disaster. We must all learn how the universe works. It is imperative that we develop our personalities, our creativity, our resourcefulness, along with our ability to give and take. This is why I believe that we are all in different developmental segments of a continuing reencarnation. We all must learn all the same lessons in our quest for spiritual perfection. 

We must all learn to be poor, to be rich, to be successful, to face failure, but we are never to quit. We are to learn that wherever we are in life we must hold to the same spiritual principals with lofty humility. God is life and a life without God is not life. In the KJV of the Bible, John 10:10, Jesus said, “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: “I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” I am come is to mean the philosophy he brought for us to know God.

Discovery of the Nag Hammadi library and the resurgence of Gnosticism gave new interpretation to the Bible in general and Jesus’ teachings in particular. We are made in God’s image and can have anything we want out of life. We must learn to feel God’s existence coursing through our body. This takes place as we manifest or create our lives. This does not take place in people who are helped beyond their handicaps. 

We must learn to love others and help them to be their best without interference. We must love unconditionally and know that by medeling in other’s affairs we impede their personal growth. Help people without doing for them. Never do for others that which they should do for themselves. An old English proverb states, “Give a man a fish you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. Teach others all you know and if you want to know what you know draw it from the happiest parts of your life. And most of all always remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

YES!

I was told many years ago that God’s answer to all prayer is yes, no or maybe. This is more proof that we see God in our image and not the reverse. The truth is that God’s answer to prayer is always yes. So to understand this new fact in the nature of God we need to understand the universe according to God instead of man in the form of religion. 


First of all prayer is not a well put together set of holy words. Prayer is thought! Every thought is a prayer. When you spout holy words to God then walk away doubting the results your prayers have changed and you will get the results you expect. If you expect crap you get crap. If you expect perfection, realizing that God’s will is perfection and my understanding is not, then I will realize perfection. Think happy; be happy and visa versa. Keeping positive thoughts in our mind requires us to be in the here and now and not in what I call automatic.

God is dynamic. God is always available and willing to meet our heart’s desire. To utilize the best of all that God is we must stay diligent in our personal mental discipline. We cannot be constantly swayed by social pressure. We must not allow our minds to be polluted by fearful media, religious dogma, friend’s opinions or any other outside interference. We must believe our tiny, all knowing inner voice, normally called our conscience, which is always being overshadowed by our limited Ego. Meditation is the way to separating the loud voices from the quiet ones.

Keep all your prayers (thoughts) pure, wholesome, loving and self-motivating. Keep thoughts of all God principals, such as love, patience, passion, empathy, etc. constantly in your thoughts. Help others as we are all connected to each other in God’s chain of life. Know that God is taking care of you and expect the miracle. When your faith wanes God’s ability to enter your life is choked off.  When your faith is great God’s manifestation is great. This why I always leave you with…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D. 


Belief

Do you believe in miracles? Do you believe they can happen to you? Do you know that your experiences’ don’t create your belief but your belief creates your experience? Belief is the greatest tool people have in making their lives to their liking. Although God made us in it’s image, he also gave man self-will, which we can use to block God’s love. Faith allows God to flow through us empowering us in his likeness. All we need to know is that with faith or belief, miracles become common place.

I am seldom surprised when I here someone share an experience they had that resembled a miracle. Sometimes even a fleeting belief is enough for miracles to escape into our reality. I expect miracles. I work non-stop in developing my spiritual nature, which is the only way I have found to overcome my human nature. If the Ego gets most of my attention my life is filled with limitation, fear and doubt. If the Soul, on the other hand, is larger than the Ego, my life becomes unlimited, filled with love and faith.

I must constantly remember that the greatest battle that people will ever fight is the battle between Ego (human nature) and Soul (spiritual nature). Hindus Christians, Jewish, Muslims, in fact most of the world’s religions, have God outside of us, with his opposition having names like the Devil or Satan. The Buddhists believe that God only lives within, but also declares the forces of evil within. The truth is that God is everywhere. God is the atom and the seeming void it travels through. God is matter and anti-matter. God is all and it is nothing.

All the power of God lives within the practice of faith. I had a client the other day that was balking at a suggestion I gave them in overcoming a habit and I told them to have faith in my treatment or have faith in their doctor, but don’t divide their faith. James 1:8 of the KJV Bible states, “A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” Two steps forward and two steps back make for a formidable existence. In fact anytime I lose faith in the love of God, even small spells of doubt, I revert my God given power from creative to destructive.

God is powerful. I, having being made in God’s image have that same power at my disposal. I can use it to create my life in a wonderful useful way or I can use it to destroy my life. God does not micromanage human life as we have self-will and can disrupt God’s love through us. Fear, worry and doubt is like a dam built inside us, blocking Soul and empowering Ego. Without God’s love my life has no meaning and becomes empty and wanting. With God’s love my life is perfect and complete. This is why I always leave you with…

Your Life is PERFECT!

PAY ATTENTION!!!

 

Love,

Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

Organization

Are you organized? I spent most of my life at being totally disorganized. Like much of society, I suffer with many of the symptoms of ADD. I have a hard time staying focused and am easily distracted. Once distracted I find it hard to get back on task. The more disorganized one becomes the more serious are the symptoms. So, which came first the disorganization or the symptomatic ADD? Like most problems it is difficult determining which came first but there is a solution.


The best way to stay focused on the task at hand is to keep your everyday world as organized as possible. In fact I find that when I work hard at staying organized I border on OCD. I was told that I should remember that although I may be symptomatic it does not necessarily label me with a disorder. In fact if I break down my symptoms and work on them I find that getting and staying organized is quite simple. 

Ben Franklin said, “A place for everything and everything in it’s place.” When I organize, I know where things belong and I don’t find myself getting stressed over simple things. In fact the more of one’s life one can organize the more one’s energy one can properly use. When I see a cluttered desk or house I pretty well determine that a person is disorganized in all aspects of their lives. This generally leans toward unreliability as there are too many details left undone.

As I have organized my life I have more free time, better used time and I become reliable. People know what to expect from me as I run my life on a loose schedule. I know where to find things, and as I get older and forget more it is imperative to be well organized. I love being able to handle my life even if it gets off track as the rest of my life stays organized and manageable. 

So work harder at getting and staying organizes as it will benefit your life completely. You will gain confidence as the majority of your life is organized. You will be able to focus on the changing part of you life because the stable part of your life doesn’t need you constant attention. This is one of the reasons I always remind you…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.

Magic

I study all religions. I find evidence of truth in them all and equally find superstition. Atheists are the hardest to understand due to the arrogance in their suppositions of unanswerable phenomena. Science is constantly changing telling me that we may never really understand the essence of life, material reality and thought. Therefore I give God all the credit. 


When I study magic I am enthralled and equally amused. There is Black Magic and White Magic. The names describe their uses. Black is for bad and White is for good. We all have power beyond power so I like to call magic, manifestation. When we use God’s power directly it is called loving manifestation or White Magic and when we run God’s power through our Ego it becomes selfish manifestation, therefore Black Magic. There is no evil power beyond our Ego. We were given free will in order to understand the absoluteness of God. God either is the way or there is painful resolve in the process.

I am powerful as I am made in God’s image and likeness. I can either stay in constant, conscious contact with God or I can pay the price through living in the dark. I like the concept of Black and White magic as it is not OOOOOHHHHH it is just a different way of understanding the positive power of following the principles of God and the outcome of any alternate choices. I pray constantly as it gives me direction and ideas on how I am going to use my magic today. At 61 years old and hundreds of personal inventories I have great understanding in my nature. This is why I ask all of you to remember…

Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!

Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.